column · October 2005
The Missing Relationship
It's encouraging to discover that people, women AND men, are starting to realize there is value in exploring the shapes and textures of our relationships... and how we serve and are served within them.


It's encouraging to discover that people, women AND men, are starting to realize there is value in exploring the shapes and textures of our relationships... and how we serve and are served within them.
Take a moment and con- sider your description of a "perfect" friend, lover, business partner, co- worker, neighbor, child, parent, etc. How well do you BE that?
That learning to graciously give yourself what you want and need releases you from demanding that of others.
That you really can be the person you want to find... and being that for yourself not only makes it natural and effortless to be that for others, it allows others to show up that way for you, too.