COACHING ……A learned skill

In the attached video, see a very candid conversation with one of my coaches, Bob Proctor.

One of my life mentors was Bob Proctor. Continue to see wat I have to say about MY Coach after this video...

He wrote the forward to one of my books, “Your Einstein Complex - Awaken Your Inner Genius, Live Your Dreams”. We worked closely together for many years on many stages, he helped me launch Life Span, the center for integrative wellness on Hilton Head Island… So, one of the advantages of getting older and there aren’t many… smiles is to be able to seek more mentors….coaches.

We never want to be locked into old paradigms because we must keep adapting. We must always seek to expand our level of awareness. And when our awareness increases, so does our ability to share and render service to the many. Bob and I had many conversations about changing our beliefs….to help those beliefs to evolve. You see when our beliefs change, we can reevaluate any situation. And it’s in that reevaluation process that we grow into better coaches. We have the opportunity to create, if we are in harmony with the laws of the Universe, or disintegrate if we are not in harmony with the laws of the universe. The greatest coaches on this planet have always been in harmony with universal laws.

To be a great coach we must use the higher faculties of the mind: memory, reason, will, perception, and imagination. The greatest coaches who ever lived, never just used the senses….to see, hear, smell, taste, and touch - I have a dog that can do that. So, use these higher faculties…. We are the only living thing that we know of who can embrace those higher faculties. Why?  Because the whole universe works in harmony with the laws. And when  we , as coaches, show that we are in harmony with those principles, we will succeed.

So, when coaching others, teach them to be “ Go givers”, not “Go-getters”. Teach others to be able to achieve the skill of trans competition. Ask those who seek your advice this question: “ What do you want…..what do you REALLY want?

Set goals not to get - but to do things better, because it’s what you become along the way that matters. It’s not about holding, it’s about circulating energy, compassion, and universal love.    Make it a great day, “ Coaches’!