article · December 2012
Knowing vs. Doing
my son KNOWS how to plan ahead – clearly. But he doesn’t APPLY what he knows to school work. What will it take for him to make that connection? It will take Coaching and leadership; and in his case, it is a joint venture between his teachers, his Mom and me. He hasn’t translat…
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my son KNOWS how to plan ahead – clearly. But he doesn’t APPLY what he knows to school work. What will it take for him to make that connection? It will take Coaching and leadership; and in his case, it is a joint venture between his teachers, his Mom and me. He hasn’t translated “knowing” to “doing” and won’t unless he gets guidance, support and accountability.
- Making school as understandable as airsoft (the goals, objectives, and process of airsoft is much simpler to get than Geometry)
- Providing incentives (financial, recognition) for achievements and benchmarks
- Providing accountability and encouragement (he gets both from his friends in airsoft).
- Specific, relevant, real-time guidance (generalities are lost to fear, uncertainty and doubt)
- Support in the form of problem-solving, partnering to create strategy, follow through on what is being learned (just “go do it” doesn’t work, there has to be partnership)
- Accountability (we ALWAYS do more when know someone is watching our actions closely)
- Inspiration (goal setting, incentives, recognition, encouragement)